7/12/02
Why
is Cognitive Programming different?
Social Service agencies have, historically, been known as
‘helping agencies’. In that particular incarnation they have presented themselves
as places where persons could apply to have their problems resolved. Now, at
the turn of the century, we are finally realizing that most social problems are
horribly intertwined. Problems that affect the education of a school child
reach far beyond the number of teachers in the classroom. Problems with
substance abuse will often have generational antecedents. Lack of employment
and job readiness may have their origins in drug and alcohol usage. Lack of
social learning skills may be more closely tied to pro-criminal thinking
patterns than lack of opportunity in the local community.
Cognitive programming, also known as cognitive
restructuring or challenging belief patterns, does not focus on the behavior.
It focuses on the thoughts driving the behavior. These thoughts are often
perceptions of the self. Questioning a person’s behavior will
inevitably lead directly to resistance and denial. Questioning what it is that
the other thinks about themselves, and their possibilities for change,
leads in a different direction altogether.
For example, a therapist may focus on the medical
aspects of addiction; a benefits counselor may focus on client eligibility, and
a teacher on the subject matter to be taught. All these are important, but none
will lead a resistive drug addict to get clean and sober, none will lead a poor
person to apply themselves to the accumulation of wealth, and none will
encourage a resistive and disruptive student to learn.
Those agencies interested in cognitive programming
soon discover that their basic function had previously been to apply direct
first aid to a specific client deficit. Here’s your check...here’s your group
session...here’s your F. But the issue driving the behavior has been left to
the nebulous ‘them’ that deal with mental issues. “I don’t know why he does it
and I don’t care” is not an untypical response from social service agencies.
Well, in this age of diminishing resources and higher public expectations, the
bar has been raised for the public service provider.
Consider this...’what are the causes of crime’? I mean the real causes. Take a moment
and reflect on what your neighbors discuss when they speak of this issue.
Poverty? Poor family relationships? Lack of education? Drug usage? Now ask
yourself, “Which of these causes is addressed by the criminal justice
system”? What do the judges, the district attorney, the police department, the
probation, and the prison systems do that addresses these causes?
Now apply this question to your own agency. What do
you do day in and day out, and how much of an effect is that
having on the root causes of the problem that drove the client to your agency?
This is how cognitive programming is different.
Cognitive programming, or more correctly cognitive/ behavioral programming, helps
the client to understand what she thinks about herself and how that type of
thinking exacerbates the problem in the first place. When that issue is
addressed we can begin to expect change. That change can lead to a resolution
of the underlying issue and the removal of the client from your service roster.
I. Cognitive Restructuring
Cognitive restructuring is the first step in
cognitive programming. It is just one piece of the cognitive/behavioral
spectrum. It is often called the ‘motivational piece’. If your agency is in
direct service delivery (welfare, employment, housing, probation, counseling
etc.) You may have noticed directives to do more with less. That is: ‘job readiness’ for welfare departments, or
‘drug programming’ for housing departments, or ‘parenting skills and contracts’
for local schools. The list is expanding daily and agencies often feel
overwhelmed at where to even begin offering a subject matter they are not
familiar with to a population that is hostile to the entire concept. Welcome to
cognitive restructuring.
Levels of Receptivity: Usually persons seeking
help from public service agencies have some fairly low levels of being
receptive to new ideas about their current situation. So the restructuring process usually begins
with the question “why change?” Working
within cognitive programming requires an exceptional level of listening skills.
So listen very very carefully to the client’s answer to the question ‘why
change? Write it down. Consider it. Mull
it over and treat the answer with respect. Therein lies the key to all the rest
of the work ahead.
Reception levels will vary. Those who are ready for
change will be very verbal at this stage. Those not ready to change will become
withdrawn. The goal of cognitive restructuring is not to change everyone...it
simply aims to provide a tool to persons that are dissatisfied with their
current situation. A tool that challenges an individual’s belief about who they
are and what they are capable of. A tool that answers the very valid question
“What’s in it for me?”
Other solutions: Now we are ready to work with the question
‘why change?’ What would a changed world look like to the client? Where would
they be working...how did they get that job...what does their family look
like...what is their stress level? Is this something they truly want? The answers to these questions will usually
be affirmative. And just as quickly, denial and self-doubt will set in.
Effective Programming: Andrews and Gendreau (1994)
are very specific in ‘what works’ as far as programming is concerned.
Effective Programs are:
Multifaceted and address the
complexity of the client’s lives.
Teach clients to
change/manage antisocial thinking.
Increase self-control and problem
solving skills.
Addresses lying, stealing,
and aggression.
Teaches pro-social skills.
Enables participants to
recognize risky situations.
Teaches how to formulate
concrete well-rehearsed plans.
Ineffective programs are:
Programs that only use pieces
of researched programs.
Psychodynamic therapies with
non-directive counseling.
Participant directed group
sessions.
Programs that target
services that are not predictive of change (poverty/race /history)
Thinking Patterns: Cognitive restructuring
providers become extremely adept at recognizing the vocalization of thinking
patterns. The patterns that restructuring first attempts to deal with are the
justifications of behavior that brought the person to your agency in the first
place. These are predictable. The first and easiest one to deal with is the
belief that ‘I am a victim’. Another pattern is the beliefs that ‘society’ is
something separate from this particular person. The overarching pattern is the
attempt to justify behavior.
Please make a special note that cognitive
programming stays as far away from the ‘behavior’ as possible. Cognitive
programming focuses exclusively on the thoughts, perceptions, and beliefs of
the client.
Listen for the pattern:
‘Everyone knows...’
‘I can’t...’
‘If they would only...’
‘It’s only a matter of time
until...’
‘It got (stolen, killed,
burned)...’
‘I wouldn’t have done it if
he hadn’t of...’
‘You know what happens when
I...’
‘No matter what happens I
always...’
‘They always...’
‘I can’t stand it anymore’
Challenging thinking patterns: Motivation is a strange
process. You will actually see a different type of person when the ‘light goes
on’. Many of our clients have extremely limited interpersonal skills. This is
what you are working with. So when a client withdraws or becomes hostile the
cognitive worker needs to seize that energy and teach a lesson. Interpersonal
skills and a type of language would usually be the first goal of the service
provider. Cognitive skills that challenge the person’s belief system help them
to navigate in this new world where their self-image is crumbling around them.
Remember you are dealing with thinking patterns that, for the most part, have
been reinforced since birth.
The ‘language’ asks what the specific complaint is.
For example:
“Why are you here?”
“I’m addicted to drugs so I
can’t change”
“Why do you use drugs?
“To hide the pain”
“The pain of what,
specifically?”
“Everything “
“What, specifically”
“I’ll never get a job”
“You’d like a good job.”
“Yeah”
“Does using drugs get you
closer to a good job...or farther away?”
The spark you see in the resistive client eyes needs
to be fanned into a tiny flame. You see, you are not working with the behaviors
(drug usage, unemployment); you are working with the beliefs (drugs hide pain, I’ll never get a job).
You have now entered the client’s world. This is
your honest attempt to see the problem and the world as the client sees it.
Look at their well-worn paths. Look at the barriers, as the client sees them.
Walk around in their mind. Get comfortable there because this is the entire
system you are attempting to help her change. So you need to have a good
understanding of this world. This is a world of their own creation. But it is
only the portion they willing to reveal. Often this world masks a different,
far scarier, world where drugs are only a symptom. To show you the whole world
would be shameful to the client. So we deal with only that which is revealed.
Remember our job, at this point, is motivation, not therapy.
Defending the world: The client will now begin
using the skills she has spent her whole life perfecting in order to defend her
world. Events will be remembered to prove that behaviors she exhibits make
sense and are necessary to her very survival. This will occur even if these
behaviors are the cause of the misery that drove her to your agency in the
first place.
But we will focus only on their beliefs. In
cognitive programming we understand that the world will not conform to anyone’s
belief about the way it ‘ought’ to be.
When clients realize that their behaviors are driven
by their beliefs they will look for scapegoats to blame for their behavior.
This is a fascinating and very predictable stage. Everyone from his or her
parent to ‘society’ will be mentioned. They will judge their behavior in
relationship to other’s behavior.
But we will focus only on their beliefs. In
cognitive programming we understand a discussion of behavior relative to the
rest of the world will soon fizzle out when we ask the question, ‘and what did
all that get you?’
When the clients realize that this is a response
frequently heard by the cognitive change provider, they will then challenge the
provider’s world. Be very careful here. You are guiding, not imposing your
beliefs on their world. Your beliefs will most likely not work in their world.
This is especially true in the areas of domestic violence. This is where the
client begins to realize that most, if not all, of their beliefs (their world)
are not true. And if it’s not true, it must be a lie.
But we will focus only on their beliefs. In
cognitive programming we understand the fear caused when belief systems are
challenged. We understand the disorientation caused when clients realize they
have confused their actual person with their current personality.
The Traps: As the cognitive process progresses some clients
will begin to look to the provider as the holder of the ‘golden truth’’. They
will deduce that the provider has certain knowledge that can be imparted to the
client to ‘fix’ them. Beware this trap. Cognitive providers do not give advice.
They resist the urge to mount the soapbox. They keep focused on the client’s
vision of himself. They quickly turn all discussion of the provider back
to the task at hand.
It is unethical to set up a scenario where the
client is led into viewing the world as the provider views it. That is not
cognitive programming. That is brainwashing.
As a group, the clients will be very busy validating
each other’s lives. This is a self-defense technique on their part. It takes a
strong provider to keep the conversations and discussions on a track set by the
program, not the participants. Free flowing discussions will inevitably focus
on validation of behavior that brought the group together in the first place.
Cognitive programming is very different from the dynamics of a therapeutic
community. The questions ‘what happened last week’ or ‘does anyone want to share’ are inappropriate
at this stage. We are presenting information and questioning beliefs at this
stage.
Facilitating Change: The cognitive change
provider should now have an accurate picture of what the client wants.
Avoid discussing what the client doesn’t want.
The provider must also have
a good idea of the client’s belief system. (“ I’ll never get a good job”)
The provider must articulate
the ‘logic’ behind the belief system. (“You use drugs to hide the pain of never
being able to get a good job”).
The provider then asks what
job prospects would look like if the client stopped using drugs. (“Would
stopping drugs make your job possibilities better or worse?)
If the client answers that
the job prospects would be better if the stopped using drugs then the
provider should ask them why they use drugs.
And so it goes. Most clients
will then switch to the real (different) reason they use drugs. Repeat
the above process. This is called the Socratic dialogue. When the client
reaches the end of logic, they will say they use drugs because that’s ‘who they
are’. Remind them that originally they told us that usage was to hide ‘the
pain’. At this point you can broach the subject of drug usage as possibly the
most destructive element of their current personality. At no time, and under no
circumstances do we attack the person? We continue to concentrate on
their beliefs only. And we simply inquire about their statements. Therapy is
for the therapists, moralizing is for the preachers; solutions are for those
smarter than we are. We are just inquiring about beliefs. And if the client
should have an insight into their current situation we can make the appropriate
referral to the appropriate specialist.
One of the goals of cognitive restructuring is to
produce more motivated clients all along the system. More motivated to
cooperate, to improve themselves, and to solve their problems, with our
assistance, by themselves. Only by taking personal responsibility for their
belief systems can they have any hope of changing the behavior that brought
them to our agency in the first place.
II. Cognitive Skills Training
The second step, and this is often a separate
program altogether, is to teach new skills to the participants. Once the client
looks at ‘the problem’ from a different angle (a different cognition) they find
themselves in an uncomfortable place with few relevant skills. If a person has
responded to stress and anger with violence, they are probably in need of
negotiation skills, anger management and so forth. These are the skills we, as
providers, take for granted. Please resist the urge to assume these skills and
solutions are already part of your client population’s repertoire.
Teaching Steps: Cognitive skills training help clients
consider alternative ways of responding to interpersonal situations. This includes
taking thoughtful rather than impulsive action. A good example is the ‘skill
steps’ in making a complaint (Goldstein and Glick 1987)
1)
Decide what the complaint is
2)
Decide whom to make the complaint to
3)
Tell the person your complaint
4)
Tell the person what you would like done about the problem
5) Ask the person how she feels
about what you’ve said
Providers that already own these skills may see the
above steps as so obvious they don’t even need to be taught. Believe me, these
skills are new work for persons used to attempting to get their own way through
violence.
What used to be presented rehabilitation is now
being referred to a habilitation. In other words, some of the skills necessary
to fulfill the expectations your agency has of this clientele were never
instilled in the first place. Job seeking skills, parenting skills, sobriety
skills, financial and legal skills are simply absent. Worse yet, the client’s
attempts to ‘deal’ with the addiction or the children or many other issues
exacerbate the problem. Even worse, these ‘attempts’ (as destructive as they
are) are validated by the client’s peer group. So deconstruction of the skill
into ‘steps’ cannot be overlooked. And every exhibit of resistance to the
validity of the ‘step’ being taught should bring up the cognitive restructuring
pieces mentioned above.
‘You can’t raise babies like
that’
‘Like what, specifically?’
‘Like that’
‘Like what specifically?’
‘You know, you gotta spank
them’
‘You spank your children’
‘Yeah, or else they won’t do
what you say’
‘Why were you sent to this
class?’
‘They said I hit my kids’
‘You hit your kids’
‘I spanked my kids’
‘Why’
‘They wouldn’t do what I
said’
‘And what did that get you?’
‘It got me here...to this
stupid class’
‘That must be disturbing and
confusing to you’
At this point in the conversation the provider can
introduce new concepts in dealing with a crying child. New steps to consider.
Role Model: At all times the provider must employ the
‘language’ and speak in a way the client can emulate.
Role Play: People learn at different speeds and therefore
role-playing and the subsequent analysis is a necessary part of cognitive
skills training. Some programs employ personal journals often called ‘thinking
reports’. Some rely on videotaping. All cognitive skills programs have constant
and constructive feedback.
Homework: In addition to role-playing, homework reinforces
the skills being presented. Remember, these skills are an ability to listen,
express a complaint, avoid a fight, respond with respect, and negotiate a
solution. Every assignment must reinforce the link between thinking and
behavior.
II Summary There is a classic pattern of thinking employed by
the resistive client (Van Dieten 1994).
A feeling that the current
situation is unjust for reasons beyond the client’s control
Extreme resentment at the
injustice of the situation
Anger or Victim’s stance
(Samenow 1995)
Threatened sense of self
The incident itself (beat
the child, don’t show up for the job interview)
Vindication - I’m OK
Cognitive programs, as contrasted with Freudian, medical,
or educational models require certain components. In applying the components
addressed above remember these things once you’ve encountered the ‘problem’ as
presented by the client:
1) Completely understand the
problem from their point of view
2) Write their ‘solution’ to
the problem down and ask them if you have worded it correctly.
3) Ask why they believe that
particular solution would solve that particular problem.
4) Ask them what goal they are
trying to achieve applying that particular solution to that particular problem.
5) Inquire how long they have
been applying that particular solution to that particular problem.
6) Ask them what usually
happens to the problem when they apply that particular solution.
7) Raise the possibility of the
existence of a different solution.
8) Teach them pro-social skills
as alternative solutions to these problems.
This is difficult work and demands a strong
commitment from both the provider and the provider’s administration. A solid
understanding of these basics will be necessary prior to launching any program
purporting to be cognitive or cognitive-based.